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Hello

I am doing a survey for an article for the mag Her World, please go here and take these 2 surveys if you are female, single, aged 35 and over. The 2 are very quick MCQ and short answer surveys. Thanks so much!!!

Mel

The questions:

1. how long have you been single (ie not attached)?
pls give the following options for answers:
a) less than a year
b) about 1 year
c) about 2 years
d) about 3 years

2. how many relationships have you been in?

3. how many first dates have you been on in the time that you have been single?

4.a. how long did your longest relationship last?

4 b. Reason:
a) infidelity
b) we grew apart
c) we had different life goals (for eg, "he had no ambition", "he wanted kids, i didn't")
d) i didn't like his family
e) personality differences ("we were too different")

5. would you date a foreign man?

5a - if yes, which nationality do you prefer and why?

5b - if you prefer foreigners to locals - What's wrong with local men?

6. Do you feel marginalised in any way because you are single? Pls give reason.

7. How far would you go on a first date?
a) no physical contact
b) holding hands
c) a peck on the cheek
d) french kiss but no more
e) spend the night talking but no sex
f) full-on sex

8. What are the biggest turn-offs for you?
a) bad breath
b) boring
c) rude
d) stingy
e) vain
f) desperate
g) plain weird

9. Have you ever been out on a blind date?
If yes, how was it set up?
a) by a friend
b) by a dating agency
c) we met online
d) through family

10. As you get older, do you feel
- resigned/defeated (give up attitude)
- more desperate
- more indifferent with regard to your single status

11. Do you believe you will find The One? Yes/ No

12. What is your main reason for dating?
a) love
b) sex
c) fun
d) companionship

13. Do you want to get married/remarried? Why?

14. Why do you think you can't find a man?
a) they are all married
b) they are all gay

15. what would guarantee a second date with you ?
a) humour
b) intelligence
c) good looks
d) wealth
e) fitting in with your friends
f) being good in bed

16. what's the most successful dating method for you? (Please from best to worst, 1 being best and 5 being worst)
a) internet dating
b) workplace
c) place of worship (ie church)
d) dating agency
e) through friends
f) clubbing
g) family
h) shared hobbies/interests

17. have you ever been engaged?