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How to woo (respectfully) a Japanese woman?
Context: A European man (30-40 years) in Japan.

How to woo (respectfully) a Japanese woman?
What kind of mistakes should be avoided?
What kind of compliment are they sensible to?
What kind of humour makes them laugh?
What are the values of a man (European) that affects them in particular?

Married Japanese, do they wear an alliance (finger ring)? Otherwise, what index helps to distinguish them?
Thanks and regards.

Just be your self, why should you act to find a nice woman?

Because of being your self, women appreciate that more than being some one you are not.

i agree with roger!

there is no sense in trying to behave different from your normal personality because in the end you two have to match when u r urself, or otherwise it will break when time comes...

Treat them like you would with any girl. But to woo her I would think you need to send her flowers, take her out on long walks on the beach and maybe buy her a bag or two.