Gender: Age: 27 Zodiac: Joined: 20 Dec 2006 Posts: 7
Home Country: thailand
Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 7:35 am Post subject:
Thanks alot for your advice Schimmel. I recognize my own problem as well, insecurities and not being able to trust someone. I always get the wrong ideas like for my previous exs and i always contribute evenly so i tend to think in every relationship both of us should contribute equally. I'm always be there for her no matter what but when I need to talk to her most of the time, esp this time of the year, she says she's busy with friends and family so can't talk. And it even hurts me more when she says like oh i can't chat have to watch dvd soon.
Gender: Age: 34 Zodiac: Joined: 08 Aug 2005 Posts: 4038 Location: Here, There & Everywhere Home Country: australia
Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 11:29 pm Post subject:
aznDude wrote:
Thanks alot for your advice Schimmel. I recognize my own problem as well, insecurities and not being able to trust someone. I always get the wrong ideas like for my previous exs and i always contribute evenly so i tend to think in every relationship both of us should contribute equally. I'm always be there for her no matter what but when I need to talk to her most of the time, esp this time of the year, she says she's busy with friends and family so can't talk. And it even hurts me more when she says like oh i can't chat have to watch dvd soon.
Thanks.
aznDude, I think your own gut instinct is telling you that you are on a different level while your gf is on another level. Sometimes its difficult to see it because we don't want to see it. Because we love too much and the possibility that its on its way out is something we don't want to consider.
Look for a girl who doesn't play mind games with you. It could be all her excuses are her way of telling you that she's not so into you anymore but she doesn't have the guts to do it.
Or it could be just nothing at all and she's just busy with her own life.
For what its worth, I can tell you long distance relationships are a bloody pain in the you know where.
No need to take drastic steps as of now, but prepare yourself emotionally for the eventuality.
No matter how old you are, I think if you look hard enough, you can find someone new. No one is irreplaceable. But cherish the relationship for what it was worth. And look forward to a new and different experience.
Merry Xmas and hopefully a 2007 filled with exciting new possibilities.
Gender: Age: 27 Zodiac: Joined: 20 Dec 2006 Posts: 7
Home Country: thailand
Posted: Tue Dec 26, 2006 9:15 am Post subject:
I understand what you mean. but like last year, we went for a month but she still said she does NOT love yet but this year she said it's diff and she loves me so so much. I don't know should I believe it or not? I know I always prepare for the worst.
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