Expatriate Forums in Brunei

nathayn · Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2007 10:33 pm Post subject: Being Gay in Brunei

I have recently been asked to consider a position in Brunei which would last for four years. A major consideration for me is that being gay my lifestyle is illegal and punishable by up to 10 years in prison.

Does anyone have experience with being being youngish (35) and gay in Brunei? I know that it is not Sydney, London or Amsterdam where I usually go out and party but would appreciate any comments or views.

Thanks....

Tinylou · Posted: Wed Aug 29, 2007 10:45 am Post subject:

Hi Hun
I have lived here in Brunei now for 7 weeks.. and i believe that being gay IS a punishable offence over here, and also Alcohol is banned too..
Being gay should not deter you from accepting the job,as i believe that as long as you are respectful of the rules here,you will be fine.

Its very old school here, but lets just say as long as you dont openly flaunt the fact you are gay.. you should be fine.

This place is awesome... its beautiful, and the people, are mostly willing to accept us Orang Puthis,(white people)and any other colour to be honest.. but you HAVE to abide by the muslim ways to a degree..

If i can advise any more, please let me know.

as i say. ive only been here 7 weeks, so its all new to me!
i dont regret leaving the soggy dull Uk behind, im just sad i may have to go back..

Regards

T Laughing